Tips For Flirting On Gay Sex Sites: Get Laid Quicker!

One of the crucial skills you need to have, in order to hook up successfully on a Gay sex site, is the gift of the gab. Or more specifically, if you want to get laid with the best young gay guys, then you need to perfect the skill of online flirting.

The top Gay men on these casual dating websites are not short of options. So, if you haven’t got game, then they won’t hesitate to hit the “NEXT” button.  I have heard countless stories of hot gay guys, who assume they are going to get laid all the time, based on their looks, but actually the opposite is true. Their amateur approach to flirting is what guarantees their failure. Here are my free top tips for success.

How To Send A Good, First Intro Email

Most male players on Gay sex sites, start off a chat by sending naked cam pics and asking when their Gay man of interest wants to meet up. This is totally the wrong approach and blatently demonstrates that you are just interested in sex. Instead of taking this shockingly bad approach, you need to show an interest in the other person. Tell him you would love to organize a meeting in person, but only mention this once in the initial conversation, unless he brings it up again. Otherwise, you will reek of desperation, which is never good. Compliment him on his pics and ask him questions about himself  and his interests.

Don’t Talk About Yourself Too Much

No one likes a Selfish person, especially not when it’s someone you have just met on a Gay website. Instead of telling him what you like and what you do for work, where you live etc- make him the center of attention. Every Gay guy loves to feel like they are special, especially if they are a young, shy, teen.

Don’t Seem Too Eager Or Too Unavailable

Every user on Gay sex sites fears coming across as too keen. The problem is, most guys leave it too long before answering an initial message, which just makes you look like you can’t be bothered to make the effort. This is especially true in the UK, where Gay guys are more reserved than elsewhere. The trick is to strike a balance- you can wait a few hours before responding, don’t leave it any longer- you obviously have a mobile phone, so there is no excuse for waiting until the next day to reply, unless you receive a message late at night.

Don´t Sex Text Too Soon

Even though it’s obvious that most men on Gay sex sites are on there because they want to hook up, they are also people, who hopefully respect themselves. Don’t blow your chances by sending a message describing how you want to ride him bareback in your car, right after saying hello. Instead, test the water a bit by dropping in some flirty compliments about his body and how sexy you find him and see what his response is. Let him take the lead a bit.

Finally, always make sure you are communicating with respect. Bear in mind, that some gay guys will be more reserved than others, depending on their culture. For example, Asian or Pinoy guys would appreciate a more gentle approach. There is no rush and it’s better to get it right the first time round, than fail time and time again, which will only demoralize you.